The Long Road: My Journey to the Eucharist
āWeāre planning to meet every 3 weeks to discuss the book,ā she said. āWould you like to join us?ā I glanced at the book in my hands before looking up and smiling. āIād love to!ā
What was I doing?! Iād just met this woman, and my schedule was beyond full. But those details didnāt matter. For reasons I could not explain, I felt like a schoolgirl invited into the club sheād always wanted to joināeven though I hadnāt known the club existed. In no time these meetings became a high point of my week. Any stress they brought to my schedule was far surpassed by the peace and life they poured into my soul. And after several months I finally came to understand that my new book club was actually a Bible Study. It would take even longer, though, for me to discover this wasnāt the first time Jesus had humbled and hidden Himself simply to be with me.
āYouāre not paying attention. Sit down and wait here.ā My motherās words were stern, and I sat down quickly, looking away to hide my tears. We were at Mass and had just stood up; I was ready to walk down the aisle and receive the Eucharist. I remember nothing of the Mass when I made my First Holy Communion, but this random Sunday church service is etched in my memory. At nine years old, the Eucharist was my favorite part of Mass. Iām sorry to say, though, it had nothing to do with Jesus. Rather, it was because I could get up and walk around. Because kneeling after Communion was when I checked out the shoes of each person who walked down the aisle. And because it indicated Mass would soon be over. I would soon find myself in the backseat of my momās car, hearing the words I hoped to hear each Sunday morning: āJen, you were very good at Mass today.ā
But on that Sunday, I knew those words would not come.
āI donāt agree with everything the Catholic Church says.ā The light turned green, and I watched the cars around us slowly move forward as my friend listed her grievances. I was sixteen. I wanted to respond. I wanted to fit in. But I slowly realized I didnāt know enough about my faith to say much at all. So I replied with the first and only statement that came to mind, āMe either. I donāt believe the Eucharist is actually Jesus.ā And in speaking those words, I threw down a sort of declaration that informed my faith for years to come.
One year later I moved out of my parentsā home and into my college dorm. Sunday mornings came and went without anyone telling me to go to church. And since Iād turned Mass into a fashion show with a snack, I simply stopped going.
Sitting in traffic, late for work, I turned down the radio and tried to make sense of what just happened. I was confused, but intrigued; filled with wonder, and wanting. Somehow, in only a few minutes, the radio station Iād stumbled upon several weeks earlier had once again brought peace to the precariously balanced chaos that was my life, and it was through the words of an unknown pastor from an unknown church.
Something was happening to me⦠or rather, in me. For years my faith life, if you could call it that, had been intermittent, unintentional, and self-serving. But sitting in my car that morning everything changed. Prompted by a yearning I could not explain and did not understand, I picked up my phone. A quick Internet search led me to the pastor whose voice Iād just heard, and at thirty-nine years old, I took ownership of my faith for the first time ever.
Ourbook club Bible Study consisted of several womenāsome Catholic, some not. Mostly strangers, we slowly learned about one another as we learned about Jesus. At one particular meeting our conversation drifted away from the book we were reading as one woman tried putting into words what she loved most about her Catholic faith and why sheād never leave it. In that moment another womanāone who was not even Catholicāchimed in with words that echo louder today than when she spoke them, āItās because of the Eucharist!ā
What was I doing?! Iād just met this woman, and my schedule was beyond full. But those details didnāt matter. For reasons I could not explain, I felt like a schoolgirl invited into the club sheād always wanted to joināeven though I hadnāt known the club existed. In no time these meetings became a high point of my week. Any stress they brought to my schedule was far surpassed by the peace and life they poured into my soul. And after several months I finally came to understand that my new book club was actually a Bible Study. It would take even longer, though, for me to discover this wasnāt the first time Jesus had humbled and hidden Himself simply to be with me.
***
āYouāre not paying attention. Sit down and wait here.ā My motherās words were stern, and I sat down quickly, looking away to hide my tears. We were at Mass and had just stood up; I was ready to walk down the aisle and receive the Eucharist. I remember nothing of the Mass when I made my First Holy Communion, but this random Sunday church service is etched in my memory. At nine years old, the Eucharist was my favorite part of Mass. Iām sorry to say, though, it had nothing to do with Jesus. Rather, it was because I could get up and walk around. Because kneeling after Communion was when I checked out the shoes of each person who walked down the aisle. And because it indicated Mass would soon be over. I would soon find myself in the backseat of my momās car, hearing the words I hoped to hear each Sunday morning: āJen, you were very good at Mass today.ā
But on that Sunday, I knew those words would not come.
***
āI donāt agree with everything the Catholic Church says.ā The light turned green, and I watched the cars around us slowly move forward as my friend listed her grievances. I was sixteen. I wanted to respond. I wanted to fit in. But I slowly realized I didnāt know enough about my faith to say much at all. So I replied with the first and only statement that came to mind, āMe either. I donāt believe the Eucharist is actually Jesus.ā And in speaking those words, I threw down a sort of declaration that informed my faith for years to come.
One year later I moved out of my parentsā home and into my college dorm. Sunday mornings came and went without anyone telling me to go to church. And since Iād turned Mass into a fashion show with a snack, I simply stopped going.
***
Sitting in traffic, late for work, I turned down the radio and tried to make sense of what just happened. I was confused, but intrigued; filled with wonder, and wanting. Somehow, in only a few minutes, the radio station Iād stumbled upon several weeks earlier had once again brought peace to the precariously balanced chaos that was my life, and it was through the words of an unknown pastor from an unknown church.
Something was happening to me⦠or rather, in me. For years my faith life, if you could call it that, had been intermittent, unintentional, and self-serving. But sitting in my car that morning everything changed. Prompted by a yearning I could not explain and did not understand, I picked up my phone. A quick Internet search led me to the pastor whose voice Iād just heard, and at thirty-nine years old, I took ownership of my faith for the first time ever.
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The flickering candle cast shadows across the blank page of my prayer journal. Though no one would read my words, I was embarrassed to put my thoughts on paper. Seven years had passed since the day Jesus met me during my morning commute, and Iād spent countless hours learning about Him and my Catholic faith. I met Jesus in quiet prayer daily and never missed Sunday Mass. I read Scripture and did Bible studies. Iād even been on silent retreats and spent time in the Adoration Chapel each week. And these activities were not just tasks; they were an integral part of my life. Theyād brought me from not knowing a personal relationship with Jesus was possible to the point where I know I never want to do life without Him by my side again.
But despite all of that, one thing still gave me pause. For years Iād not thought of it. Then I was embarrassed to admit it. And of late, I wanted to change it. So I set my pen to the page and began to writeā¦
āJesus, can You help me believe You are really present in the Eucharist?ā
Almost immediately I sensed His quiet response: āYes. But in the meantime, live like you already do.ā
I glanced at the clock and, making a last minute decision, turned down the street leading to the church. I wasnāt sure exactly what God was challenging me to, but of a few things I was certain:
If I believed the One who created the entire world was inside the tabernacle of each Catholic church, I wouldnāt drive by without making the sign of the cross in acknowledgement.
If I believed the One responsible for the peace, joy, and healing Iāve experienced the last few years was present in the Eucharist, I wouldnāt miss an opportunity to receive Him in daily Mass.
And if I believed the One who died to spend eternity with me was actually present in the Adoration Chapel three minutes from my house, I wouldnāt miss an opportunity to see Himāeven if it was for only five minutes on my way home from work.
The faint scent of a burning candle and a familiar sense of peace enveloped me as I stepped inside the small chapel. Walking quietly past an elderly lady in the last row, I went to the very front of the otherwise empty Adoration Chapel. Kneeling before the Blessed Sacrament, I took a slow, deep breath and felt both my body and mind settle. And after only a few minutes, I stood to leaveāsilently questioning whether this short visit could possibly make any difference. Just before exiting the chapel I made eye contact with the woman in the last row. Giving her a barely perceptible nod, I started to look away, but before I could she raised her head, held my gaze intently, and broke every unwritten rule of Adoration Chapel etiquette as she spoke in a clear voice, āThank you for coming.ā
As her words washed over me, time and my heart stood still, and in that moment I knew. I knew the way only one who knows can know: Her words were His.
The clinic door closed behind me as I walked down the hall. I don't know how I spent so many years working a mere two minute walk from our hospital chapelāa chapel where daily Mass is celebrated and where Jesus sits in an unmarked tabernacleāall the while completely unaware of its existence. But the truth is, ten years ago this knowledge would have made no difference in my life. Today, though, it does, and Iām forever grateful to the patient who told me about it. Now, not a day passes that I donāt step away from the noise of the clinic to sit with Jesus, even if itās for only five minutes.
Iād be lying if I said my heart shifted overnight. But each time I followed Jesus' direction, choosing to act as if I already believed He was present in the Eucharist, my belief was slowly solidified. I canāt explain why this piece of our faith was so hard for me to accept, especially when I easily embraced other āimpossibleā elements that I could not explain. Even when my faith life was a mere afterthought, I never doubted Jesus was born to a virgin or that He rose on the third day. But for some reason Jesusā own words regarding His Presence in the Eucharist were difficult for me to accept.
Iāve read that belief in the Eucharist is a gift of grace. But I suppose my long and winding journey to believing confirms grace can do nothing when your heart is not open to receive it.
I lifted the gold key from the storage box and entered the empty chapel. Smiling shyly, I approached the tabernacle. Seeing the Adoration Chapel empty now fills me with conflicting emotions: Iām selfishly grateful for time alone with Jesus. And Iāve such sorrow that the One who lives, loves, and died for us has been left alone, once again.
Genuflecting, I opened the tabernacle doors and sat on the floor. Looking up at Jesus, I reflected on the long road I traveled to get here and was overcome with humility and gratitude.
āJesus,ā I whispered silently as tears filled my eyes. āThank You. Thank You for waiting on me.ā
Deep in my heart I heard His tender, loving voice, and my tears overflowed as He responded, āJen. I wasnāt waiting on you. I was waiting for you.ā
But despite all of that, one thing still gave me pause. For years Iād not thought of it. Then I was embarrassed to admit it. And of late, I wanted to change it. So I set my pen to the page and began to writeā¦
āJesus, can You help me believe You are really present in the Eucharist?ā
Almost immediately I sensed His quiet response: āYes. But in the meantime, live like you already do.ā
***
I glanced at the clock and, making a last minute decision, turned down the street leading to the church. I wasnāt sure exactly what God was challenging me to, but of a few things I was certain:
If I believed the One who created the entire world was inside the tabernacle of each Catholic church, I wouldnāt drive by without making the sign of the cross in acknowledgement.
If I believed the One responsible for the peace, joy, and healing Iāve experienced the last few years was present in the Eucharist, I wouldnāt miss an opportunity to receive Him in daily Mass.
And if I believed the One who died to spend eternity with me was actually present in the Adoration Chapel three minutes from my house, I wouldnāt miss an opportunity to see Himāeven if it was for only five minutes on my way home from work.
The faint scent of a burning candle and a familiar sense of peace enveloped me as I stepped inside the small chapel. Walking quietly past an elderly lady in the last row, I went to the very front of the otherwise empty Adoration Chapel. Kneeling before the Blessed Sacrament, I took a slow, deep breath and felt both my body and mind settle. And after only a few minutes, I stood to leaveāsilently questioning whether this short visit could possibly make any difference. Just before exiting the chapel I made eye contact with the woman in the last row. Giving her a barely perceptible nod, I started to look away, but before I could she raised her head, held my gaze intently, and broke every unwritten rule of Adoration Chapel etiquette as she spoke in a clear voice, āThank you for coming.ā
As her words washed over me, time and my heart stood still, and in that moment I knew. I knew the way only one who knows can know: Her words were His.
***
The clinic door closed behind me as I walked down the hall. I don't know how I spent so many years working a mere two minute walk from our hospital chapelāa chapel where daily Mass is celebrated and where Jesus sits in an unmarked tabernacleāall the while completely unaware of its existence. But the truth is, ten years ago this knowledge would have made no difference in my life. Today, though, it does, and Iām forever grateful to the patient who told me about it. Now, not a day passes that I donāt step away from the noise of the clinic to sit with Jesus, even if itās for only five minutes.
Iād be lying if I said my heart shifted overnight. But each time I followed Jesus' direction, choosing to act as if I already believed He was present in the Eucharist, my belief was slowly solidified. I canāt explain why this piece of our faith was so hard for me to accept, especially when I easily embraced other āimpossibleā elements that I could not explain. Even when my faith life was a mere afterthought, I never doubted Jesus was born to a virgin or that He rose on the third day. But for some reason Jesusā own words regarding His Presence in the Eucharist were difficult for me to accept.
Iāve read that belief in the Eucharist is a gift of grace. But I suppose my long and winding journey to believing confirms grace can do nothing when your heart is not open to receive it.
***
I lifted the gold key from the storage box and entered the empty chapel. Smiling shyly, I approached the tabernacle. Seeing the Adoration Chapel empty now fills me with conflicting emotions: Iām selfishly grateful for time alone with Jesus. And Iāve such sorrow that the One who lives, loves, and died for us has been left alone, once again.
Genuflecting, I opened the tabernacle doors and sat on the floor. Looking up at Jesus, I reflected on the long road I traveled to get here and was overcome with humility and gratitude.
āJesus,ā I whispered silently as tears filled my eyes. āThank You. Thank You for waiting on me.ā
Deep in my heart I heard His tender, loving voice, and my tears overflowed as He responded, āJen. I wasnāt waiting on you. I was waiting for you.ā
Then Jacob woke from sleep and said, āTruly, the Lord is in this place, and I did not know it.ā
Genesis 28:16
Praying on this Holy Thursday, the very day we commemorate Jesus' institution of the Holy Eucharist, that God breathes life into these words.
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Such beautiful words to describe the invitation to Christ. I love Momās words of āYouāre not paying attentionā¦ā. I wish these four words were written across the entry way to every church and place of prayer.
ReplyDeletePay attention. Work to stay awake! If there is any time I do not feel closely connected to God, I am simply not paying attention. AMDG
Amen! So so true.
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